i told this guy that I dated 5 years ago that that the child I conceived 5 years ago wasn't his then 2 years later he asks me again I said no! then 1 week ago he emailed me with the same crap asking me if their child is his what can I do what do you think he wants from me? I'm even beginning to think that it's a possibility of using the child just to have communication with me maybe he still like me I don't know. Someone please help!
What does he want from me?
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Well, If you are sure the child isn't his then just go tell him in front of his face and warn him to not to bother you. Actually you can call the cops if he is really disrupting you and your family. He kept asking you because he might thought you are lying and don't want him to touch your child ( he thought its his). If he is not satisfied then you can do the DNA test, but I suggest you to not to waste your time on that what if he still bother you and just stay away from him. Now the important thing for you is that your child should be happy and have good surroundings. Also, he might want to be responsible if the child is his but seems like he misunderstood it.0
He either wants to keep the communication between the two of you going, or he wants to be a part of the child's life--there really isn't much else he can get from you. If it really bothers you, do a paternity test. That way, he has no reason to contact you to ask if the child is his. And if he does continue to get in touch with you, it's probably because of you, not your child.0
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