Most Helpful Girl
I get a good amount of views and a lot of messages initially, though they'd decreased a lot over time. I never get responses from the messages I send to guys, so I stopped being the first to message. Of the messages I did get, 95% were guys wanting in my pants in some manner or another (usually fwb). These kinds of messages (and ultimately my messages in general) decreased dramatically once I made it blatant on my pages that I did not do hookups, friends with benefits, one night stands, etc and that I was there for serious relationships only and preferably wanted to wait till after marriage for sex. The 5% remaining messages I received were from guys wanting legitimate relationships, but there were all 50+, extremely obese, or lived out of state/out of country, which are all dealbreakers for me. In the three years I attempted online dating, I never went out on any actual dates and I only received one message from a guy I would have actually considered dating and he stopped talking with me after the first day we messaged each other.
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Most Helpful Guy
I hate it, never met a woman on a dating website, all the women I’ve met with from online weren’t from dating websites, women who go on dating websites are shallow and it’s not even just the skinny women, it’s the overweight and ugly women as well and sometimes they’re even worse than the skinny women