September 2016 he broke up with ex
October: we meet
November: star dating
January 2017: we "break up"
February/march: he gets back wih ex, they break
April: we dont speak
May: we start hangin out, get drunk have sex
June: i tell him to stay away from me
July: i reach out we start talking
August-present: we are friends with benefits
Most Helpful Girl
I feel like at first you were second choice, whenever a guy is completely for you and then just shuts the relationship off or has a “change of plans” you are second choice, anyone who does that really. Maybe he is in denial or is trying to move on by having you around. Like you already know if his ex didn’t cheat y’all wouldn’t be together at all, i am not saying you are but it sounds like your being a rebound puppy when he can’t be with him ex so he’s with you and he’s keeping himself occupied by activities you two are usually doing. But he could be falling for you at the same time with the whole cuddling thing at the same time it sounds like he’s using you babe /: do you have feelings for him? If you do.. don’t try too hard to be in a relationship with him, just give him time and he will come around.
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