What things make a woman automatically unattractive to you?
What Guys Said 77
A diva personality. Selfishness and rudeness towards others.
Intelligence is only a factor when there is a big gap in hers with his- this is something that makes people incompatible because it's so hard for them to communicate on the same wavelength.
When she thinks the sun shines out of her ass. She thinks she's a big shot. When a woman is rude to people, especially server/waiters & waitresses, I'm done. Also, when a woman doesn't try and thinks she deserves to get pampered without doing her part in the relationship/date.2
Laziness, gold digger, constantly seeking sympathy, etc.
Basically, if she's not a decent human being.
If she's rude, snide, snotty, thinks she's above everyone else, or anything like that.
I can handle if she doesn't like the same music I do, even though I am a musician. I can handle if she has different political views, I could even handle if she was overdramatic.1
Overly vein, conceited, mean spirited, arrogant, too flashy... Like, if you consider, my ideal mate would be a girl who is just super cool who I can be best friends with and have this really close intimate relationship with ( @whastername ) then, my biggest turn offs would be kinda the opposite of that. Someone who is just kind of bad generally, who takes and takes and is a drain on everyone and never gives anything back and is just kinda a bitch.1
Honestly there's a ton. But I can say a few off the top of my head.
A pushy girl, an extremely Arrogant girl, a bitch who attacks others for fun, someone who is extremely blunt, someone who is too needy, someone who is very controlling. The list goes on a on but I do think feel like im hard to please. It's generally easy to find people I enjoy being around.1
Talking too much and fast, talking and treating like a guy, being easy and stupid, cursing, being not romantic, wearing too seductive clothes, resting bitch face, being a whore, slut or pornstar, having her child aborted, insulting and moking guys and disliking old-fashioned things (like eating by candlelight, opening a door for her...)2
Well that depends where you meet them...
At a bar or library? Sometimes girls approach guys according to the occasion... however, a guy like me can take any girl home as long as they smell really pretty and dress well... nothing flashy yet nothing too simple...
Excellent teeth is a big plus... and openly expressive over family values and culture are great qualities a girl can express1
Aside from a terrible personality, a girl that doesn't take a shower every day and doesn't cook really pisses me off.1
Off the top of my head: smokes, does drugs, overweight (nothing against them as a person, just want someone roughly my same body type), yuppie or ghetto, promiscuous, or party phase.2
Not a total turn off, just makes a gal less unattractive to me: smoking
Instant turn off tattoos that "scream" "look at me": including on the chest area. Full sleeves.
Those that are just some that come to mind.2
Rude, condescending, loud talker, stuck on herself. smoker, poor hygiene, too high of an opinion of herself, doesn't stop talking, talking bad about others in a gossipy way.
being obnoxious for no apparent reason, swearing like a sailor, having man-like manners , smelling bad, having dirty unwashed appearance1
Being insecure about one's self
Easily irritated and short tempered
Bitchy.. always complaining about something
Doen't carry herself with dignity
You seem to ask a lot of these types of questions @Samathoo
Cussing, smoking, being flirty and trying to get everyone to notice her, tattoos, piercings, being a loudmouth.2
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