To make a long story short I've been talking to this girl online for over a year, the site I met her on was full of fakes (girls using other girls pics) and she knew this, lately there have been a lot of signs pointing to her being fake and I wanted to look past them but I just couldn't, so the other night I finally kinda snapped and I told her over facebook that I wanted some kind of proof because there were a lot of signs telling me she was fake (not going to list them) but she got mad and kinda went off on me, I made it sound like I was ready to move on if she was willing to step up to the plate, and she gave me a bunch of excuses, so I told her that I just couldn't do it anymore, if our friendship wasn't worth her hopping on skype for 2 minutes or driving down the street to meet me, than I had to move on, she never responded so I was going to just block her, instead I waited a day to see if she would respond, and nothing, so I messaged her again, this time with the details of why I thought she was fake and asked her how I was suppose to believe her with that kind of evidence in front of me, she responded this morning telling me she was tired of proving herself and then she said have a nice life and SHE Blocked me!, I'm not sure if this is a sure fire sign that she's fake or if I just really p*ssed her off.. I blocked her a few weeks ago, because we were suppose to go on a date and she misread it and started dating an ex boyfriend who lives 150 miles away because she thought I didn't like her and I didn't want to fight about it, right after I blocked her she texted me saying "that was a d*** move asshole. goodbye." and that started a war and I unblocked her. fact is if she is real, she's worth waiting for looks and personality wise, but if she's fake I want nothing to do with her, so here are my options... Move on, forward the same text she sent me a few weeks ago back to her, or say "it feels good doesn't it!? well it feels better knowing I was right about you", I figure if I say that and she's real granted that she knows where I work she'll storm in and jack me in the face, but if she's fake she'll just ignore it or fight with me, not sure if there are more options, but what do you think I should do?
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Honestly, I do hate fake pics of women. If I plan on meeting up with a girl off an internet site, I'll take my chances with what she really looks like.
You should have done so, too. Instead of demanding more pics from her, just be cool about it and meet up. It's actually interesting, and leaves me on the edge of my seat to finally see her in person.
If she looks like the pics, then it's all good. She's for REAL and that inspires me to trust her. If she looks NOTHING like her pics, perhaps much uglier, then I'll devote 10 minutes to her and leave. That's what she gets for showing up, but nothing more since she faked her looks and threw me off. Either I leave, or else I'll put her in the friends zone forever while I pick up other girls while she's present.
Don't bother shoving this into her face - "It feels better knwoing I was right about you" --> that's an arrogant message that you can't claim because YOU DIDN'T PURSUE HER INTO THE MEETUP. How do you know whether you were right or wrong? You didn't find out and probably won't.
Your insecurity blew it. She knew it, and now she's sadly crawling back to her ex because there's no one else interested in her.0
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