Online dating- Why would he message me first, but then stop messaging?

A guy messaged me first on OkCupid and told me a little bit about himself. I messaged him back and gave him the same details he gave me. I closed with a question, but he never replied. Why would he message me in the first place if he wasn't interested?
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Update-
If anyone cares. I matched with the same guy on another site. He messaged me again, then stopped replying to me. I called him out on it and he actually asked if he could text me. People are so weird.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Playing around i think

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Most Helpful Girl

  • He's likely talking to other women, online dating can be crazy! How long has it been since you responded?

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    • I responded two days ago, just a few hours after he messaged me. I saw that he was online this morning and I didn't get a reply from him.

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    • Thanks for the MHO :)

    • No explanation for some people!

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What Guys Said 5

  • He might have send the exact same message to several different women, basically just fishing for replies. Then he picks and chooses who he wants to reply to.

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  • maybe there was something that just didn't click.

    Ghosting is an awful thing to do to someone but sadly it seems the norm rather than the exception

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  • Mybe cuz you are good woman and he search bad woman

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  • He messaged multiple women.
    Multiple women replied.

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  • I don't think any of them people on them dating sites are looking
    for anything real.

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What Girls Said 1

  • He probably copy and pasted the message.. and then got talking to someone else he was more interested in.

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