We been together for about 7 mos and I'm just not feeling it. He's so good to me and perfect but it's not there for me. I'm in love with someone else. I feel awful. I'm suppose to be hanging out with this other guy I've had feelings for forever this weekend and I need to break up with him because I don't want to cheat! I feel so guilty either way!!! Is it bad to do it over text? I don't want to hear his voice and put him in the spot over the phone or in person.
Most Helpful Guy
Doesn't matter how good he is to you. "Not feeling it" is a fine reason to break up. Just say "Look, I'm sorry but I've met someone else and I'm going to pursue it. Nothing you did wrong, I'm just not feeling it anymore. Good luck." Maybe I'm weird but I don't really see why this has to be done face-to-face.2
Most Helpful Girl
It would be a good idea to talk to your boyfriend before this weekend, otherwise that would make the situation worse. Please don't break up with him over text. That is possibly the worst way to do it. You need to do it face to face as hard as it is. It's not going to be pretty but breaking up with him via text is just heartless1
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