Do men enjoy it when a woman is chasing them?

What men think of the chase , do you find it sexy? Pathetic? Despreate? Courageous?

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  • I would like it. It'd make me feel like someone actually wants me.

    If/when it does happen, I don't know how I'd naturally go about it. I'm assuming things would hit off and we'd be straightforward, seeing that I hate these games of constant emotional distraught; "Does she like me? I'd feel horrible if I confessed to her when she only sees me as a friend. I mean, some signs seems like she's interested... I don't fudging know anymore, just forget about it. If she liked me she'd probably actually show it."

    Extreme metaphor:
    Being the one to do all the chasing is like walking through a minefield when it comes to figuring out if a girl likes you. Everything is so subtle to the point that your confidence turns to terror and you decide it's best to stop and stand still at your position rather than to go any further and step on a mine. And mind you, the floor is one huge flat, tiled surface, no sounds or anything with the exception of the occasional beep, which is the only reason you were able to advance without dying in the first place. It takes so much time and effort just to get the reward on the other side of the field, you question halfway if it's worth it anymore because there's another field with easier clues and the same/slightly different reward.

    Of course there are some people who are really good with this stuff, but they're specialists and the minority of guys, and they don't even care about love, but more about sex and psychological play._.

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What Guys Said 44

  • No i dont enjoy that, i dont like to play games with any woman, im a straight forward person, if she likes me, then i would give her the attention and get to know her, i dont like to play any games with her

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  • Does it hurt when you hit your head with a skillet? Of course we like it and anything goes ranging from “find it sexy? Pathetic? Despreate? Courageous?”.

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  • Depends on the guy, but personally I'd be flattered if a woman was interested in me. Most women don't make the first move, even though only maybe 10% of men approach a woman they are attracted to.

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  • It's complex, usually slutty girls are doing it, so that's the problem with it. I think that the chase itself is okay, but the kind of girl that usually doing it, are not.

    tvtropes.org/.../NoGuyWantsToBeChased

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  • For me? Enjoy the chase: yes i do, a lot. It makes me feel she likes me a lot. Let her chase? No. Im not good at mind games and i would do my best to talk to her. If im single and a girl fancies me, i ask her for a date.
    If im not, this is worse. I frikin hate rejection. I frikin hate me rejecting. It would be hard for me to tell her i can't have a shot at it, and if i can't manage to tell her, i will try to make her frienss talk her out

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  • It's good but with most guys it's not much of a chase. Few guys will run away from an opportunity to date a girl they like. Guys don't select the way girls do.

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  • I like it. It is a fun experience. It all depends on how they chase for if I think of it as desperate, sexy, or whatever else.

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  • I like the attention but why waste her time when you have feelings for her also?

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  • I think courageous, cute, sexy, flattering. But most importantly I think "gimme gimme gimme!"

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  • I hate games. I don't play hard to get; I won't tolerate women who do.

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  • Its nice for a woman to do the chasing occasionaly rather then the man always doing the chasing, its quite nice and its flattering

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  • I don't get this often so I would think it's cool. Definitely courageous

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  • I don't care if it seems desperate or not. Knowing that it's possible for me to be desired would change my life

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  • I personally enjoyed it till I met a girl who acted like crazy and then I'm a little afraid of being chased passionately. But I enjoy it.

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  • I think it would be a good thing, however, i have yet to experience that in regular life

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  • If a girl chase me I'd feel wanted and yes it's courageous as well

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  • I don't know about the other men, but for I'd do. Not sure tho, since it never happened.
    Depends on the girl I guess, no one likes behind chased by someone he doesn't like.

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  • I'd be suspicious. The only time a girl has chased me they only wanted me for my dick and didn't give 2 shits about me.

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  • All three it depends on the context of the situation

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  • I lean towards, "please don't." Just let me know you're interested in me. If I feel the same, I'll let you know.

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What Girls Said 5

  • According to a dream I woke up from about 30 minutes ago, they are not interested in women chasing them. Haha

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    • Maybe not if is with a axe in your hand :)

    • @smølf no axe! Haha I just made a bold move like tried to make out with him which he was not interested in receiving and then he avoided me the whole rest of my dream. I kept thinking he would eventually cave but he never did lol

  • My last boyfriend though chasing was super unattractive - problem is I'm like this by nature, so we're both now single, he can go find some other girl to tell how to act. I have nothing more to offer but myself. So love it or shove it.

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  • Depends on the guy and the woman chasing him.
    Some guys find it flattering others find it desperate.
    If they are interested in the woman then they would like it. If they aren’t... well you can pretty much guess

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  • In my opinion, No men do not like being chased, They like chasing, they want a challenge.

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  • Depends on how it'd done probably. If he's avoiding you, remember you're both of the same species and not a tiger and a gazelle so back off.

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