So I told her how I felt. And she was saying how it’s her fault how I caught feels and how she was trying to retain herself from talking to me and how she wants to be friends. And I was confused because when we would hang out we won’t act like a couple and we would hang out every week.
So I told her I think it’s best if we don’t talk or see each other for a while.
So it’s been a while and i send her snaps once in while and I have told her if she wanted to hang out once during this break.
And when I did, took hours to respond and we didn’t hang out or she would just open my snaps.
So what should I do because I understand she wants to be friends and I want her as a friend and maybe develop but I feel like I scared her away. And like I just want to be straight up with her and be like look I get it. So what should I do? Tell her? Or just give it more time?
Most Helpful Girl
If you truly want to be friends and can put aside the feelings for life, send some sappy long message. If you want to be more than friends, move on. If she did 'fall' for you, you'd be a rebound and she doesn't want that for you. It at least shows she cares for you.
Most Helpful Guy
She liked you.
You got all out of shape... Too keen.. and you turned her off you.
Then.. when you told her how you felt, it was too much and she's backed off.
In other words. You were too keen. Like a door mat?
Women are attracted to guys that have things going on, an active, social and stable life.
You only need to date once a week at first. Let her think about you.. wonder what you're up to.
Don't text or chat too much.. save it for the dates..
And do not say how you feel about a woman, until she asks you! Otherwise you look weak and needy!
Women are emotional and it takes them time to develop feelings in a guy. Push this and you push them away.. What's the rush? Have fun and let things happen naturally..