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Don’t do that.
It’s not unreasonable for a person to be able to talk to an ex as long as it does not cross the line into them betraying you. If you trust her then stat out of it. If you don’t trust her there’s a bigger issue. And if someone wants to cheat they will regardless if your rules. It’s not like you can lock her up in a prison 24/7.
If someone ever does something unreasonable then you say, ‘hey, you can do this if you want but if you do we’re done’. Then it’s still their choice. But don’t make an ultimatum unless it’s a really big deal situation.