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If I'm reading this correctly, and you're worried because he didn't text you like he usually does, then he's trying not to be so predictable with you perhaps. I find sometimes that if I'm always predictable with a woman, then they get complacent or bored or they get the feeling that , "I'll always be around, so I can play him or string him along as long as possible." That's usually the feeling I get when a relationship doesn't feel like it's progressing or if I feel like the attitude of someone towards me isn't improving, or I feel they will never trust me after so many times together.
There is patience and then there is stagnation to the point that I start to wonder why she still feels we aren't at the trusting stage yet? Like in my mind, if I'm with someone and I've been to their home, shared intimate times with them, trust them enough to be at my place, try my best to keep in touch with them even when I'm busy, and try my hardest to show them care, and they are still cautious with me, it tells me either I'm not really the one for them or that there is someone else they want or that I'll never get to the stage where they will trust me enough, so now I'm wasting my time.