Commitment, pros and cons?

So there's someone you like, but will you commit? Or would you still prefer to stay a free bird? Why yes, why no?
  • Yes, I'd take a chance and commit.
    Vote A
  • No, I'd rather stay single.
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Con: The Thrill of the Chase is Gone
    Pro: You Can Be Authentic
    Con: You Lose Some of Your Autonomy
    Pro: Learning to Compromise Makes You More Empathetic
    Con: Sex Can Become Repetitive
    Pro: Sex Can be Better Than Ever
    Con: You May Have Less Time for Other Relationships
    Pro: Your Partner Can Be Your Lover and Your Best Friend
    Con: You May Wonder if the Grass is Greener on the Other Side
    Pro: Increased Quality of Life

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Pros:
    A guaranteed partner.
    Gifts, cuddles, and warmth.
    Constant supply of sweaters and shirts.
    Sweet good morning/night messages.
    Letters, chocolates, being able to always have someone to go out with and spend a good time.
    Harmonising in the shower.
    Reenacting Harry Potter or any other show.
    Having someone to take pictures of you.

    Cons:
    Are they cheating on you? No, but are you sure they're not?
    Jealousy always settles in at some point.
    Horrible, heart wrenching arguments.
    Very difficult decisions.
    Unsure if you're doing things right.
    Lots of effort.
    More laundry to wash.
    You can't flirt with others.
    You can't party too much.
    You can't admire pretty guys.
    You can't even look at them.
    Awkward Family Reunions 😬
    Boredom, routine settles in.
    Requires a lot of work to get over lows, and find new ways to enjoy together, to avoid routine.

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What Guys Said 10

  • I've been living that situation for 3 months now. I leave her be, because I know she's better off without me. I don't want to get in her way, drag her down, and ultinately make her unhappy.
    It's much better to just have a friend

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  • Right now, I'd rather be a free bird. Nobody has given me reason to commit to them. The last people I took interest in ignored me and only spoke to me when they wanted something.

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  • No woman will ever like me. That's why I stay single and stay shy. Really.

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  • What cons does commitment have. I fail to see any cons

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  • I'm ready to commit to someone, just waiting to find that someone and hoping they feel the same way.

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  • She would need to be the right one, though, and most likely would be foreign

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  • Yes I'm willing to commit because I want someone by my side

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  • I'm married; commitment is a given. ;)

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  • N/A, no relevant person exists currently.

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  • No, I'd rather stay single.

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What Girls Said 3

  • single4lyfe

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  • commitment

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  • I like being single. I see no pros.

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