Am I selfish? Is he shy?
What Guys Said 1
I don't think I would call that selfish and I don't know the new guy is shy, not very interested in you, or just someone that likes staying distant.
Considering how many women I've seen complain about guys that won't communicate with them enough, if you want a non-communicative guy you should be able to find plenty that other women don't want.
My personal opinion is that open and honest communication is very important in a relationship, so I'm thinking that in time you might regret selecting the more distant type of guy, but if that's really what you like maybe it will work for you. I think it's going to be hard to have a close relationship with someone like that, but if you don't want a close relationship you might be happy with that where most people wouldn't be.1
What Girls Said 1
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