- I wouldn’t quit smoking if my SO asked me tk
- I would quit smoking
- Don’t say anything to him
Most Helpful Guy
When you do mention often that you come up with that topic because you worry about his health. And simply claim that you talked with a doctor and therefore know for a FACT that bad things can happen before the age of 30. Its not like his body will be like "oh I should have lung cancer now.. BUT WAIT Im not 30 yet!" he could still get it before. Simply tell him that you worry and if he claims something to show that you're wrong, ask him for prove. He can't. Because all he's saying is based on assumptions.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm a smoker & been with two guys who didn't smoke. One didn't mind & the other started minding when we moved in together (& I didn't even smoke inside, I went outside for that).
I always told him he knew what he was signing up for from the beginning- I never made it a secret & told him I won't mind going outside, but I won't stop.
I fear you've agreed on him being a smoker when you first decided to date him knowing all that. It's his choice, not yours. You can ask him & he might do it for you, but he doesn't have to oblige.