Can anyone help me and give me some good advice about this situation please?
What Guys Said 2
Ok he's a crush. I don't care how much you WANT someone, he's going to choose who he wants, and it sounds like he has chosen to have a relationship similar to what you have now, with her. Also this fighting over a guy crap is stupid, and honestly he doesn't probably care who, he just knows he's getting attention and it makes him feel good, so he will probably go to the lady who gives him the most attention without being clingy. Also stop asking fucking questions you don't want the answer to. "Oh I really want to know whether..." No, it will just bring more questions and the answers you do get are not going to help you at all, just cause pain. You want him? Tell him, stop beating around the bush, otherwise a nother woman will step on your turf, and you have absolutely no ground to claim because after all he's only a crush. Also if your stopping him from being happy because you can't get yourself together, undermining his possible relationships, your just as bad as your friend for breaking your trust circle, worse even because she was being friendly and it sounds like he pushed his boundary with her to see where she stood, where as you are just hiding in a corner trying to shoot down other birds. Also asking him about other women will generally make him think you are trying to help set him up with her, not asking for yourself. So nows he's going to look at your even more as a FRIEND. see how your just screwing yourself over now?
She isn't your friend at all!
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