How to lower the resistance?
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I had a similar situation once. I was very interested in a woman who seemed to not want to be anything more than friends. I don't think it was about me specifically but she just didn't really want to be in any serious relationship. I pursued her for almost a year before she finally agreed to be in a relationship. We got married about two years later. In the beginning it was fine, but then she started being distant again and wanting to be more like friends than lovers. I worked hard again to try to raise the level of the relationship but she just withdrew further and eventually we got divorced.
Based on that unpleasant experience, my opinion is that if there's someone you like who really doesn't seem to want to be in a relationship with you, it's probably better to look for someone else or you might have the same problem I had where I got her interested for a while but then she went back to wanting to keep her distance. I think it would be a lot easier and probably more rewarding to be in a relationship with someone that really wants to be with you.0
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