I’m bummed. We’ve hung out longer and then all of a sudden this girl comes along and he makes it official with her. It sucks because I really like him. I feel like I’m not good enough the fact that he never pursued anything further with me.
Most Helpful Guy
His going with another girl is no reflection on you. There are many nice, fun, intelligent girls that I've known, that I could never have married. It wasn't because anything was wrong with them, but simply because we did not mesh. I see good looking, nice women in happy relationships and marriages, and I know that I would not have been happy if I'd married them. Not because there is something wrong with me or them, but because our needs, personalities, beliefs, way of life, and myriad of other things, including subliminal things, that would not have made us good matches.0
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Most Helpful Girl
This is why you don’t just have some casual fling with a guy if you like him more than just sexually. Remember not to just put out next time, it’s not the way to get something serious.1