I was incredibly nervous to meet my significant other's parents and did my best to be polite and I thought they were being okay towards me however later in the evening when supper was ready my boyfriend told us to go sit at the table since the food was almost ready and I took a seat. My boyfriend was served but I wasn't so he took his plate gave it to me and then got another for himself. His mother then sits beside me while the whole family is there and announces that next time I am to serve myself because she will not ever serve me. I was a little taken back by this how I offended her. It became so incredibly awkward. As a guest I did not want to just go up to her oven and grab food and since my boyfriend was served and he told me to sit at the table I just followed suit. Why would his mom want to onpurposely embarrass me like that?