How do I know if im gay?

I catch myself staring at other guys and wondering if I like them, but at the same time I can't see myself being romantically or sexually involved with another guy

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  • I don't believe you're gay when you look at the same sex. I look at girls because I'm human and compare myself or just to look, but that doesn't mean I want to be romantic with them. I think what you're doing is normal for any straight person. You're just wondering because the lines are blurred between gay and straight. There are so many things you could be. It's like a spectrum. Don't decide if you're gay because that's just a title. Just be you and don't fall for societies crap. Society is messed up. Don't question who you are when you know

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    • So no. I don't think you're gay or attracted sexually/ romantically to the same sex because you just said you weren't

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  • If you wouldn't date a guy, then you probably aren't gay. I've been sexually attracted to guys, but I'd never find a guy that I would want to be with romantically. You are just bi-curious by the sounds of it. One good way to figure it out is to get the grindr app and chat to guys on there. If you find someone you would be interested in meeting for a drink, maybe you have gay or bisexual desires. If you just want a bj, you are probably just really horny and need to get laid.
    Hope that helps.

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    • No problem, you'll discover yourself more with time. Sometimes it is good to try stuff to see if you like it. It took me far too long to do some sexual stuff with a guy to know that I sort of liked it. But I prefer girls. Some guys are just hot to look at.

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What Girls Said 2

  • You aren't gay.

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  • You probably can’t see it because you’re not used to it, that’s all. Ever since you were born, you’ve been exposed to heterosexual couples.

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What Guys Said 11

  • In my opinion, you should just let things happend. Dont think about Hetero or Homo or Bi, if you date girls and boys its totally normal, if you only date girls of boys it is too.
    But the dame happends to me, ill just wait, maybe some day a fall for some guy, who knows? ^^

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  • You answered yourself. If you do not wan't a physical or emotional relationship with a man you're not gay.

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  • If you're only attracted to guys but if you can't see yourself being romantically or sexually involved with another guy then you might be straight or in denial about being bi or gay. That's up to you to figure out

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  • Hi...
    As a gay individual myself it doesn't really matter if you wonder if you like them. It will obviously take time to understand and some think they are gay and end up being bi sexual. I recommend giving a little more time to grow and find out

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  • You wonder if you like them but you just said so yourself that you don't. That doesn't sound gay to me

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  • "I can't see myself being romantically or sexually involved with another guy"

    This is the only relevant part of what you said.

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  • It's an easy question, pretty universal for both genders...
    "Do you like the dick in and around the mouth?" :)

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  • Go to pornhub and click a gay porn video and let your dick decide but if you dick erect both gay and straight then you bi.

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  • You're not gay dude. Probably not, anyways.

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  • Man, don't do it.

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  • If you're happy, you're gay.

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