I am from India , I am not concerned legally, but my point is that why do u oblige the society on everything else but the marriage issue? If u don't wanna follow societal rules then it should be on every front.. as the reason he give sis that he doesn't wanna do it for the society!! Is the ceremony the issue or he's scared to give someone the position of his spouse? Or it is a commitment issue so he cn easily walk out when he's bored/done!!
If he obliges on every other issue, it may just be a fear of commitment. For most men, that's a huge step and can be pretty scary if you consider what most men think of the ways marriage can change your relationship. For instance a lot of men say that once they were married, their sex lives ceased to exist. A lot of men fear the nagging wife who gives no freedom. I'd just be patient. Maybe one day he will change his stance, but I wouldn't pester him too much about it.
Thank you :)
Why can't you commit without a piece of paper signed by the government? Are you actually saying that without a dude going to a courthouse paying ~$80 to the state that you live in and having said paper signed and notarized you wouldn't be able to know he was commited to you or trust him just because he wants to keep his love life and the government seperate?
Because it’s usually a bullshit excuse
I personally feel that way because I fucked up and got married when I was 19, we were young and dumb and all our friends were getting married at that age because military has a Fuckton of young marriages and long story short she cheated on me and at 20 I was going through a divorce and it just really made me wonder what the actual point of a marriage was. Back when I believed in the sanctity of marriage before I got fucked by it I understood now it just looks like a piece of paper with false promises to me.
If you're in love just be happy in love why does marriage have any reason behind it. I want someone that I can love. If they want to get married I probably would do it again but I don't really see what marriage does anymore.
Fair enough, I understand your point. Your experience probably through you off a little and I’m sorry for that. While I do agree to an extent, I still have a different opinion to this.
It did it was a tough lesson to learn and prolly messed me up a bit for the future but I'll get over it. Like I said I probably still will end up married again but I just have an ability to understand why the people would not want to go down that road now which is something I didn't have before.
Well I’m glad you haven’t completely thrown out marriage because of your bad experience. You just got a bad egg!
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