My boyfriend is 24 and I’m 15. Thoughts?


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  • As others have pointed out, it might be illegal where you live, depending on what you do together. Check the law.

    My personal opinion is that private relationships are an individual decision and the state has no business poking its nose into your romantic life.

    I also think that if you make decisions you should accept responsibility for the consequences. If you think you're mature enough for all the good fun and easy bits of a relationship with this guy, please also spend some time considering the difficulties, what can go wrong, health and legal risks (if any).

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  • Slightly strange. You two live in different worlds. He is able to go to bars and casinos. He is able to vote and apply for credit cards.
    You are in high school and can't legally do any of the things above.
    If it works for the two of you, great. Hopefully you live in an area where that is the legal age for consent.

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    • Thank you for actually giving a substantive, reasonable response, unlike many other people choosing to post, both male and female.

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  • The age difference is not that big later but now he is an adult and you are still a kid. He can take advantage of you in so many ways because of how big this difference is now and I would say he is already taking advantage of you even if it would be legal depending on where you are from.

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  • too many kiddy fiddlers these days.

    a twenty year old should stay away from children. there is never an excuse for pursuing an illegal and potentially exploitative relationship with someone whose total years on this earth are only slightly more in number than the gap between their ages.

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  • i honestly don't see the problem. As long as you aren't being forced then i can turn the other cheek. At least from my perspective

    Others like the law, SJWs and parents (especially your father) in most cases will have a big problem with it.

    Im sure you and him know the possible negative implications of your relationship.

    Do whatever you want

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    • Dude, there at a totally different stage in life. He's literally a grown man and she is literally a child. You don't see anything wrong with that?

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    • Lmao.. You guys have fun.. My girl who's an adult is about to walk in and we're going shooting today.

    • @OatsnWhey cool nobody cares

  • That unusual and sexual intercourse is illegal in almost, if not all states. If you have sex with him and ANYONE knows, he will go to jail for rape and indecent liberties with a child whether it was consensual or not.

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  • As a 24 year old, I can confirm that there is absolutely something wrong with your boyfriend mentally.

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  • Legal. You just can NOT BE SEXUAL. Do not listin to the guys here they may disappove. But going out to the movies blah blah is okay. Get to know him just don't make it sexual. And if it is already. Well that's illegal.

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  • At your age it is completely inappropriate for you to date a 24 year old.

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  • I don't understand what a man that age would want anything to do with a high school girl.

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  • While it's totally legel your boyfriend is a hebephile and if you do anything sexual you can't legally consent so it will be considered rape and he could go to jail for a very long time.

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  • its not ok ir a minor he's an adult. if ur having sex makes things worsw as ur parents can take legal action given that ur a minor.

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  • I don't personally think it matters, I mean people of different ages sync with each other all the time. However, we live in a stupid, illogical world and even though you guys may really care about each other, he could get into trouble for dating you if you aren't the legal age of sexual consent. If your friends and family are cool with it, then I guess it doesn't matter, but if they aren't cool with it or don't know, then someone could go to the authorities and get him in trouble. If you really care about him, you don't want that for him. So, you may have to just wait for a few years until you're sixteen or eighteen, depending on where you live. If you're both willing to wait for each other and you think you'll still have feelings for each other in the future, then that may be what's best. Waiting sucks, but it is what it is. Good luck.

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  • he is too young for you. sugar daddies are usually 30+

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  • Love have no age!
    But then again people don't think like that all the time. Should maybe wonder what makes it that he don't meet people in his own age. And if you know that he is with you pure out of love or just coz you are young. I don't know it's not my place to say, I just would not date or be with anyone that is the same age as my younger sister, never ever never. Maybe 2 years younger than me. It's more about the stuff you would want to share. I mean a person that are 15 is in a whole other place in life than a 24 year old person. Or at least should be.

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  • Ummmm. Yeah the age difference is a nah. That's a problem.

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  • I can't understand why he's your boyfriend but I respect it

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  • Disgusting

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  • Illegal.

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  • Good for you bad for him I guess

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  • That's... not legal...

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  • Nah u need to find someone younger

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  • Hate to say it but its so far apart that it probably won't work out. He is likely using you. And you could put him in jail by being so young so dont date him if you dont want him in jail.

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  • Plenty but you already know what I think and what most people think.

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  • It probably won't work out. You're at two different points in your life. You're going to change and so is he. I'm not going to say its the age difference because I've seen people that were that far apart in age and still had a good life together. Its the timing. Your not ready for him yet you still got some growing and personality changes and experiences to do before you guys can completely understand each other. You might change and become a completely different person within the next few years. He might too, when he's 30 he might be ready for kids or marriage you'll only be 21 will you be ready for that?
    Like I said before I've seen it work but there's a lot of compromising and giving up important things that go into it. The timing is wrong and its illegal but that's just my opinion.

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  • Don’t be having sex.

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  • Illegal.

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    • Depends on what country. Many European countries including mine has below 18. Sweden which I'm from you are free to have sex at 15.

    • @simonqq Really? Anyway, I think 9 years isn't that big of an age gap, but when she's 15 then it is. It would be different if she was 20 and he was 29 I think.
      15 and 24 doesn't feel like the same maturity level.

    • I totally agree. Age gaps are greater when younger. Like 10 year old with 15 year old. Wouldn't be a problem when 18 and 23.

      I had a relationship with a 28 year old and I'm 21 so I don't judge age much. But in this case I think he is taking advantage of her.

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  • I'm 14 and I'm with a 24 year old. It's illegal I know but I think it's your thing whatever the hell you do in your private life.
    If he really loves you and he'd love you if you were 40 or something like that and is not attracted to you because of your age I think it's your thing.
    Of course it's illegal and not the right thing to do but as long as you take care of yourself I think you're good.

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