If a guy doesn’t pay for a first date I’d never go out with him again.
You're not the only one. 96% of female respondents in that Penn state study said they'd never accept a 2nd date with a guy who didn't pay for the first. It's a damn shame.
I’ve never payed for a first date, and I typically end up sleeping with them after the first date. Most guys are extremely ignorant, you are actually better off asserting yourself. If a girl gets pissy, she’s a hoe or a gold digger. You can get cheaper hoes that are much better in bed.
I always expect the guy to pay lol but to each their own
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Wow lol id still wouldn’t pay 😂 or if I had to pay my half and split ways for good lol if you don’t want to pay don’t ask me out lol no skin off my back
ya but there is a girl out there that doesn't see it that way lol... and that's the one that will make it through and then get everything... like everything lolcause she proved herself hahah I guess you money as something you can't compromise on... that is a huge red flag for me though lol...
And what is the principle?
If a guy doesn’t pay on the first date then I won’t go out with him again. If you’re not going to pay don’t ask me out lol
lol at the entitlement
i hate when girls say this, when they know and expect men to ask anyway
@MrNameless O really? Cause I was the first one to ask my boyfriend out and pay for our date. -_- So if paying for a date is so much of problem for you guys, then just don't bother asking in the first place. And my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now, we split everything.
@MrNameless You guys obviously don't see the woman you asked to go on date with worthy enough to pay for. You guys act like paying for a date, is like her asking you to pay her mortgage bill, phone bill, car bill, and everything else in between but some of you have no problem dropping 60 on a game but 20/30 bucks on meal is like you're entire life savings for some reason. And yet us women are the one's constantly being called gold diggers and money obsessed when it's actually you. A lot men really can't see how much they really worship their green god called money. But anyways... Just save yourself the trouble, don't ask, and say home and you don't have to worry about spending anything on anyone but yourself. Problem solved.
you're a literal needle in the haystack
Also, paying isn't an issue for me. It's a bother when women don't offer and feel entitled that they don't have to
lol no, I don't want women paying for my bills or dates. Money isn't the issue, its the entitlement that men have to pay for the dates all the time, instead of splitting the bill on the first couple of dates when they're getting to know each other. It's the 21st century where everyone is supposed to be equal and have the same earning potential, but when comes to old fashioned dating, they go with what benefits them the most. You have absolutely no idea how annoying it is on men to always have to initiate conversations, plan for dates, and pay for everything 95% of time.And nope, not falling for your bait
Literally read all the other women's comments here. The majority have the sexist attitudes, and its disgusting. That being said, a lot of men are also brainwashed
@MrNameless But it's not entitlement when you ask that person to go on date with you? It called common courtesy, I would never make someone pay when I asked them to spend time with me.
@MrNameless Like i said, if it's a problem, you can solve it by not asking for a date. Problem solved.
The woman should always pay on every date.
I've had a girl pay a couple times, it was definitely hot lol. She wipped out the money so fast there was nothing I could do.
Wosers! Just like that huh what a fox.!
What we we're doing wasn't expensive at all but its the fact that counts haha
I bet she has job too and everything. #jealous
Not at the time lol #collegelife
Unfortunately, that's how both males and females were raised