What does his behaviour mean? and why?
What Guys Said 2
Immaturity, and insecurity.
He placed an expectation on you without ever giving you a chance to pass, then gets immature about it, throws a tantrum by acting distant on purpose because he probably feels insecure about why you never showed that you cared by paying for the coffee and then cancelling the movie because he probably thought you didn't want to pay for it too or something.
You're not at fault. He is a man, and if he had a problem he should have just came forward with it first.1
You weren't being careless at all I know what this is cuz I've done it myself. This is what you do when you want someone to feel guilty even though they did nothing wrong. He's just mad that you didn't fit his expectations no matter how small they were, you weren't careless he just doesn't know what to communicate what he wants. Plus if he has a well paid job and he has no money in his account that means he's financially unstable and tends to waist all his money. The fact that he won't let you pay just seems like he's stuck in chivalry times when these days it's easy to understand that women are independent. If he can't understand you have something to do that's more important than watching pictures on a screen for two hours not even talking to each other, then he's not ready for a real relationship. If this happened because of a coffee and cancelled plans it's a real sign of immaturity. And I'm only 19, guess it's true some men just never grow out of immaturity you deserve better.1
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