Is it good that I dont get nervous or get butterflies with my new boyfriend?

I feel so chill with him and not at all nervous, is this a good thing?

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  • My great grandma told me something before she passed. She said to not chase after the boy who made your heart race, that's your body telling you that something is wrong, go with the boy who makes your heart slow and makes you feel secure and safe. Listen to the signs your body gives you. People would be a lot happier if they did. I listened to that advice and I've been in a relationship with the first guy I dated for four years now. The heart racing or butterflies are just signs of excitement, of something new. Eventually you move into a phase that's more about comfort than excitement.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Yes, I think it's good and normal. The nervous part should happen when things are starting, not when you're already in a relationship.

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  • Do you like him?
    Does he like you?
    If both answers are yes then fuck the butterflies. They can go find thier own boyfriend.

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  • Sure, if you feel perfectly at ease with him thats a good thing

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What Girls Said 3

  • All the other guys I dated I got butterflies but I don't think I ever did with my current boyfriend but he is the best thing I've ever had. I think it's a good thing

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  • You should never feel nervous around your so.

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  • Yes I think so!

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