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This is quite the hard question. Because i preach compatibility... its women that preach chemistry and over the years I've realized its just some excuse used to weed out the ones they don't like..."oh, im not feeling the chemistry"... and to seduce the ones they seek..."oh im feeling a lot of chemistry"...
But there are no lies and sides taken in compatibility. There is smoothness... give AND take... and the ability to compromise.
Chemistry is important too... but if you are truly compatible... it will be generated on its own. Chemistry doesn't happen up front. Lust (and sometimes greed) does.