Should I confirm our plans, or should he?

My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for 3 months. We've had a little contact, but not much. I broke up with him because I felt like I wasn't getting what I wanted out of it, but I miss him and things are very unresolved. He recently explained to me that he had a lot going emotionally while we were dating, which ultimately led to distance. After talking for a bit via text, I suggested hanging out. If I haven't heard from him to confirm our plans on the day of, should I reach out to confirm? Part of me feels like he should confirm them since I am the one who reached out and suggested we get together (meeting halfway kind of), but am I thinking of that backwards? Help!
  • Reach out to him
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  • Wait for him to come to you
    Vote B
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What Guys Said 1

  • You made the attempt so you have to conferm. I would probably do it the day before in a? "You are still available to meet up at 8 tomorrow, right?" Be specific so there is no confusion or exscuses.
    But its usually a bad udea in general to date an ex.


What Girls Said 1

  • Reach out to him.


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