I find it easier to be friends with guys. On the other side, I've tried being friends with more girls, but I found out, most of them don't like me much. I always find them bad mouthing me behind my back. Something about me being insensitive, too upfront and monopolizing the guys (whatever this means). I asked my guy friends about this and they said it makes them insecure if the girl has too many guy friends and I don't understand why. I mean if the girl chooses you to be her boyfriend then have a little faith on her?