Starting a conversation on Tinder?

I've begun to use tinder and I've been getting a decent bit of matches, im not sure why but I can't get myself to open a conversation. Sometimes I've even unmatched girls simply because I went by too long without saying anything.

When talking to a girl in person I have no problem, although admittedly I have a bit of a problem with speaking to people initially.

Basically what I'm asking for is tips to begin a conversation?
  • Say anything you would normally say to a person you'd meet for the first time irl
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  • Cheesy opener
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  • Not a fan of pickup lines, only when i'm just in a cheesy mood and want to do something silly. Just start a regular convo. But many people don't know how to make that interesting. truth is, you can make anything sound interesting if you ae passionate about it.

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What Girls Said 3

  • Try to be funny! Don't be afraid to shoot your shot.

    I shot my shot with a man on tinder, and to my surprise, we have now been in an official relationship for over five months!

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    • You might want to use a different phrase from Shoot your shot. When you said that you shot your shot with a man, stories from Thailand popped into my head rofl

    • What about Thailand? I’m afraid I’m not sure what you are talking about.

    • If you are innocent enough not to understand, I'm not going to ruin that for you lol

  • Use something original, always works

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  • Say anything you would normally say to a person you'd meet for the first time irl

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What Guys Said 2

  • Cheesy openers are lame and the majority of women will hate them

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    • How would you start the convo? Let's say her pictures don't say much and her profile bio just says she's studying and likes dogs

    • Unfortunately, many ladies don't respond to that. I recommend just saying hello or some sort of greeting like in regular life and go from there

  • Use normal lines. Don't use pick up lines they don't work

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