My girlfriend is coming over this weekend, but I'm a little unsure about something. She's the slow, relationship type, but she's been giving off signals that she's at "that" point. She's shy, and I love her, but I don't want to react to these signals and upset her. I'm ready, but I want this to go at her pace. But I can't just go and ask, are you ready for this or that, without it taking a wrong turn. That just comes off wrong. I don't know what to do.