Before I explain- we don't talk about the future that often. In fact, he started talking about the future first and continued to. Recently he's been saying "you never say that to a guy" when I mentioned "when I'm married..."(not even referring to him) or "when I have a child..." (still not referring to him. Just in general). I have no idea why! He used to say that all the time and referred to how we would raise our kids! He knows my passion is working with children and I really want them in the future. I don't know what is going on with him. Of course I'm not thinking I wanna get married now. I want to wait until I'm in my twenties. He knows this. Why is he freaking out?