I'm talking with her for almost 3 months now and he have this amazing conections, my god
Conection. Do you think because of this conection everything tend to go well?
Hopefully I can't say for sure as sometimes it doesn't happen in person. The last guy I met from online holy crap didn't realise I could click that well with someone and we are now in a relationship however I've met guys in the past where I've spent time with them and felt awkward as hell.
but the guys who didn't ckick with you were the online conversations with them as good as with your current bf?
One of them I had amazing conversations with but it just wasn't there in person.The conversation with my current boyfriend before meeting him was minimal (I was in a risk taking phase and meeting up with people for the sake of it) however it all paid off
That's crazy, huh? I've never had these insecurities before, I mean, I miss the ages in which I just met someone on tinder and have sex, I just brushed my teeth and did my hair and it was all good. But now.. i keep thinking; what's if she doesn't like me? what if she thinks I'm not her type, or doenst like the shape of my body, or my live conversation. Man... I have not been like this for a while now
You must really like her to be this nervous, which is cute. Kind of need to get out of your head a little bit and go with the flow. It is crazy to think I didn't even know this guy 6months ago now we are together and see real potential here
But she says the shape of my body or anything isn't going to change what she sees in me and thinks about me, so I guess she's telling the truth
"been able to handle it when I haven't seemed excited enough to meet them" - what do you mean?
I think some guys expected me to shower them with affection when I first met them after chatting online. But I was a bit cautious and reserved but still talkative and friendly. I don't feel like I know them even thought I've chatted online with them but they seem to think I should be all over them or something. For example, the guy who kept asking me repeatedly whether I liked him - I had said hello and exchanged a kiss on the cheek to greet each other - I thought that was pretty good for a first meeting but he seemed insecure about whether I liked him because he kept asking me all night how I felt about him. Another guy, I greeted in the same way also seemed to take offence that I didn't express more excitement meeting him and asked "what's wrong with me, do you think I'm ugly?". I'm said no because he wasn't but he also ruined the date by interrogating me about how could I seem to like him during chat but not in person.
For a guy, even though he is secute about himself, it's difficult for the mind to accept that the girl is liking his moves. Some guys say, like your guy, but some guys don't say. But I can say to you that every guy thinks like this... woman are just so more convident and secure than men, that's the fact
Thanks for your perspective. Yeah it seemed insecure and I just wanted to get to know him but it felt like he was pressuring me with his questions
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