I'm not one to chase... it's just unatural for me, but I sort of feel like I am in this situation, and I can't help it because I like him more than the other guys that I'm dating, but I really don't feel like I know what to do in this situation. Am I wasting my time?
Most Helpful Guy
No. Not at all. From the sound of it he's really into you. He could be old fashioned and taking his time to properly court you before moving in for the kiss. It's what I would do, at least. I, myself, went on a date a few years back, and didn't kiss her either, because I was raised that one didn't kiss on the first date. I thought the date went extremely well, yet she never went on another date with me SIMPLY because I didn't kiss her that night. I couldn't fathom that. From your story, I think he may be the same. Give him time, and if, after a few more dates, if he still doesn't kiss you, then give him permission verbally, he may be waiting to know you're ready. In this age of sexual assault being thrown around like hotcakes, he may be just being cautious. It's perfectly okay to take initiative, we guys can be rather clueless at times.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
He is shy.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE