My boyfriend follows models on instagram. Should I be worried?

My boyfriend follows some models on instagram. Although it seems like he never commented or liked their posts, I don't know whether I should be mad about this or not. Thoughts?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Unless he has a shot with these instamodels you have no reason to worry. It is innocent, guys like looking at attractive women.

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    • "Unless he had a shot"? Uh, what?
      Yeah, that sounds real innocent. If you're in a relationship, you don't look at other women. You're not single.

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    • Yep! Thanks :)

    • I wasn't even looking for anything but I found something lol

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  • It's just childish behavior that some men have. It doesn't mean he's gonna cheat on you or anything. So no, you don't need to be worried. You get guys who don't do things like that but then you get some who do. It's not really a big deal in the grander scheme of things.

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    • Yeah, its no big deal. Just him showing how you're not his greatest find and he's still attracted to other women as if he's single. Just because he doesn't act on it doesn't make it "not cheating". Cheating comes in all different shapes.

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    • @umleavemealone I see. You are just a sad online bully. Waste of my time and energy. Good luck with your "wife and kids". We all know this is just a story. Nobody with a family and love will feel the need to insult or bully people on the internet.

    • I think you two have been focusing on the extreme parts of your disagreements. I bet you two have common ground on this topic.

      Here's my thought. I agree it's totally okay to find people attractive. Here are two facts most of us likely know though.
      1. Humans often cheat.
      2. Humans will often lie or stage information in a way that benefits themselves or their behavior.

      I agre with rabbit on points. I also think much lobbying from men on this topic had overtime collectively influenced women enough to rationalize against their logical instincts (what the asker has shown asking this question).

      Following pretty girls because they are pretty doesn't mean he will cheat. It also doesn't mean the point of him following them because of the basis of their looks doesn't mean cheating isn't what he'd want given the opportunity. That's were I think a lot of women have learned to rationalize away their fears. And I think that's the root of umleavings disgust.

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What Guys Said 19

  • not what i asked. i asked have you ever thought someone was attractive when you were in a relationship.

    commitment is not about forcing yourself to feel a certain way. its about being honest and kind.

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  • You should worry if he starts worrying when you follow male models on Instagram. If he doesn't seem to worry, then
    1. He might have a good reason to justify why he isn't, which you can follow as well, or express it to him that you don't like it.
    2. He really doesn't care about what you do with your private life as he trusts you and knows for sure that you would be there for him as long as you say that you are there for him.

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  • Nahhhh. Better for his to look at them then your friends. Harmless

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  • What's there to be mad at? And getting "mad" isn't going to do any good either. If it bothers you, just let him know that it does that's all.

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  • Nah. My friend takes nude erotic photos of girls he meets on instagram, and his wife doesn't seem to care.

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  • Guess what.. He watches porn too... Insecurity like that will chase him away pretty smartly

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  • Nope. Unless he's PMing them, you probably have nothing to worry about.

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  • Models... ya whateves lol
    it's like having a poster of Johnny Depp on your wall... whateves

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  • No. Its okay that he sometimes allows treats to his eyes

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  • Yeah be worried because of course they will chase him for his money and beauty...

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  • Do you think he's going to attract one.

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  • Nope

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  • Kinda weird in my opinion...

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  • Don't worry about it.

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  • Nope

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  • Probably

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  • no.. all boys do that , stop this shit 😐

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  • What is wrong in it

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  • Yes, you should. Like why is he following models? If be a bit upset if my girlfriend was following male models. Like for what exactly? That's for the singles to do.

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    • But like what the other comment has said, sometimes guys just like to look at beautiful women... right?

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    • You both sound ridiculous.

    • You wanna say the bible is made up because men wrote it? Well I guess history is too. How else do you think people were to record history back then? You're out of this world.

What Girls Said 2

  • Nope you don't need to worry... Just trust him! And the fact is those models doesn't exist in his real life so don't spoil your relationship coz of them

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  • He'll never meet them so no

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