Another problem is that I’m moving abroad end of next year, he knew and even joked that he would hide in my suitcase to come with me. I would like to know if it’s possible to make “this” more than just a friends with benefits arrangement, and hopefully make him move with me... a lot to ask ofc. Thanks for reading. And hopefully I can get some good advice. Peace!
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It's already a relationship. Stop worrying about labels. If you're happy together, keep doing whatever you're doing. Also, ask him to go with you. Tell him he doesn't need to hide in your suitcase, you'll get him a dog carrier for the cargo hold. Or tell him you've got to go, but you don't want to be anywhere he's not. Or just buy him a seat right next to yours on the plane, train or boat and see how well he takes a hint. Whatever you do, don't spoil an obviously good thing by being preoccupied with labels. I'd kill to have what you've got, no matter what you call it.1