I'm getting crazy mixed signals from this guy
I would stay give him the benefit of the doubt and stay with it, for now. He may be a good guy who just needs to grow up a bit.
just a bit
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To be honest he did this on the first day I met up with him without me knowing him. Too soon and no respect what so ever
You’re one of those “nice guys” aren’t you
Ok, do you realize this is two completely different situations? You have insinuated in your original question that you have been dating for a while. Why didn't you say he said this to you on your first date?
@hanasong Shhh. The adults are talking.
Yep, I was right lmao
ok i should of said very early stages of dating then in the question
@hanasong Yep, and you're just another instant and automatic guy hater and gives all the relationship power and decision making capabilities to the woman. It's only what she wants that matters and never mind what he wants, right? Sorry, doesn't work that way. He has every right ask. If you aren't happy with your relationship, what do you expect him to do, say nothing? If you think silence is the right form of communication in a relationship, then I feel sorry for anyone you date. You're just another self righteous man hating feminists that feels men have no right or say in their own relationship.
Ok, yes, that certainly changes things. Yes, that sort of demand that early in is a red flag to me. In that case, I definitely agree with the other posts that he is jerk and probably best to drop him.
he's not my boyfriend and I'm not a feminist
Ok, lets start over... Yes, this guy is a complete tool and insensitive and basically using you for sex. Not only that, but he is very quick to put you down and insult you this early when normal people usually go out of their way to impress a new partner. Huge red flag! Again, I think you should seriously not see this guy. My other comments regarding man-hating are focused towards hanasong, and not you.
Ah i see I'm sorry i misread it. But thank you for your advice!
I never said I hate men lmao. Nor did I say I was a feminist? I was just throwing in a joke but you’re really proving my point here, truthbeknown. And where did I say that women hold all the power? It’s an equal balance of both, but your first comment instantly put this poor girl down just because she didn’t want this guy to bug her about having sex. And another point: “what do you expect him to do, say nothing?” No? When did I say that, jackass. I never even said ANYTHING about silence. Like I said, I threw in a JOKE and you took it wayyyy too far. Grow up, dude.
And to the asker, I’m sorry you have to get a billion notifications for this.
@hanasong no worries haha
I actually have less problem with this question than the demand for sexual favours.the idea of discussing sexual history is important as both a safety factor and as a way of communicating needs/desires.But demanding sex, that is bullshit, and having sex or not has no bearing on if you are boring or stimulating company.
you mean he'd have sex if I was boring?
I mean his claim that if you don't give sexual favors you are boring is just plain lies.A person can be boring or stimulating company regardless of if they are giving the other person sexual favors.
i barely know the guy and far too soon for me
i mean i don't know if that's just a certain kind of humor he has xD but if he's all serious about it, you might wanna move on ^^