When my boyfriend goes hangs with his friends. Problem?
What Guys Said 3
Guys will mostly lose track of time if they are having out or having a good time and seemingly thats just the case here.
Dont be so hard on yourself or your boyfriend.
What you are feeling is just out of lack of things to invest your time and energy in.
This is crude and blunt but you need to find some hobbies for yourself to do. While you boyfriend is kinda in the wrong here for not replying its his time and his choice as to what he does with it.
If he's not being attentive to your needs then there's a problem.
Think of it as this:
Your life, your time
His life, his time,
The relationship, both your time
You def need to find something to do on your own. I do not blame the boyfriend not responding. He is out with his friends, in one aspect to get away from you. Thats not a bad thing and i dont say it to be meen. But everyone needs a break. If my wife or i go out separate from eachother. Neither of us contact the other unless its to say where we are going or when they are headed home. I have a feeling if he responded to your text. There would be a followup then another. You really have to make an effort to find friends with simular interests. Being totally 100% invested in a boy friend is a bad idea. When the relationship becomes your identity if it ends you will be crushed with no friends for support.
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