in a completely different conversation he mentioned he would get back with his ex (from 4 years ago) in a heartbeat.
I told him it was sketchy and called his character into question and he didn’t seem to understand why, and tried to wave it off with “she lives in China now so it’s unrealistic.”
But it kind of left a bad taste in my mouth and I’m unsure whether to write him completely off or not
By “option” I meant I wouldn’t friendzone him so I may pursue things with him when I figured my own life out if he were available
Good fucking lord.
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No. I mean the reality of a lot of relationships is there's still some unresolved feelings. They don't just disappear. Doesn't mean he'll be disloyal to you. Him telling you that actually kinda shows he trusts you a lot. Your reaction to it might be considered a red flag to him tho.
Likewise, you're not even in a relationship with him either, you're actually kinda keeping him as an option right now so even if it would be disloyal, I don't think he currently owes you any loyalty if that makes sense. You're currently not loyal to him.1