So my boyfriend has planned a lot of thoughtful activities for us (e. g. he got us tickets for go karting/disneyland/movies), but all I wanted to do was to take his clothes off and have sex all night the moment I saw him.
We usually meet up once a week, so I thought we need to have sex to make up for the days we haven't seen each other.
He complained to me afterwards and asked me, "Will you be okay if we decided not to have sex for one week?". He said that he wants to make an effort in taking me out, and I didn't give him a chance to.
We met up today, and he insisted that we should go out on a romantic stroll and get dinner. I feel like I have probably tired him out, that he does not want to sex with me anymore (at least not in the near future).
What should I do? Is too much sex really that bad?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think it's about "too much sex". It's just that you don't see eachother a ton, apparently, and while sex always sounds like a good plan, he might want to share other good memories with you as well. It's probably not about tiring him out or anything.
Have a good talk about it! Communication is key in a couple. We can give you opinions all we want, but at the end of the day, the only opinions that matter here are yours and his.2
Most Helpful Girl
It looks like your relationship is based on only sex.0