Most Helpful Girl
My ex was blonde and the man I'm dating is blonde. I don't care what hair color they have, but it's obvious that I like blond men. You say you live in Melbourne, so maybe that's why. They're not used to scandinavian people. Here in scandinavia I'm sure being a blonde man is no problem.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm (dark) blond and average height and moderately fit (but not really muscular or athletic, more outdoorsy and slim) and I've never had a problem with women. I don't think women tend to dislike blond men particularly or at least some women seem to like my dark blond hair/blue eyes combo. All men get rejected and you just have to learn to deal with that I guess.