We often argue because we don’t see eye to eye on a lot of things. I am not sensitive and serious. He is more laid-back and free. Sure, there we be a complementary relationship, and there is. We are similar is certain aspects. But, the arguing over petty things like me taking a joke too seriously, or getting upset about a comment he makes are wearing me down. I love him dearly, but, sometimes we have to refrain from discussing certain things because then it becomes a fight.