We are both learning and working on understanding each other, but, sometimes i get discouraged.
Most Helpful Guy
There's no such thing as an ideal partner and love is almost never enough, for it is overshadowed by negativity and let's face it - love alone can't make two different people get along, unless they both yield some of their traits and opinions in favor of that of their partner. Most problems can be solved by communication and talking them out. Just make sure it happens before your love is still big enough.
Most Helpful Girl
If you plan on having kids and if you both are so different on things, then it is probably best that you guys do not stay together.
If you do not plan on having kids and if you both are so different on things, then it can work if each of you is willingly to accept the differences.
If not, or if it is just one of you, then one of you will have to keep accepting and accepting until they do not even know why they are accepting. Is it just to get along or because they think it is correct. And what is better anymore - to get along or be righteous?
Not an easy question to face...