Dude I do all this stuff and I can’t attract any women like actually I get made fun of
I don't believe you are there yet. Women will let you know when they like you and you go for them. Sticking your neck out all the time trying to get a date is not a good way to be and it screams of desperation.
Well now women just think I’m crazy cause rejection affects me really bad
Well it's seen as a sign that validates why you where rejected. It shows that you are dependant on the validation of others. Become a solid person within yourself
Should I just give up on it
Don't give up. Put it on hold until a time comes when you can feel okay with rejection.
I don’t think I’ll ever be ok with it
Then you will always have this problem. Take time to heal and in time confidence will come with time and success
Dude I have had this problem all my life nothing is likely to change
Then it never will. I want you to realize you are arguing against your own interests though. You a trying to convince me that you believe so little in yourself that you can never be your own healer. I feel very sad for you in that regard
Cause it’s the truth if I have had this issue for 26 years what’s magically gonna change
Nothing with that outlook. You need a break, you're just burnt out.
I guess I just get annoyed when people say I’m gonna find a girl one day. Like my brain hates shit that’s not true like I get annoyed quick
You may, you may not. There are no guarantees in life, but you can increase your chances that's is certain.
Not really I have every possible thing that could prevent me from being in a relationship
Then you are in the best place to begin. If you truly feel this way than any step no matter how small is an improvement. And every step after that an addition
Dude I already do that
For sure man just trying to help
Yeah I see me focusing completely on my career and forgetting about starting a family
If it’s meant to happen I guess it will, but I certainly don’t expect it to for me anymore and I’m sick of trying and being fucked over!!
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But I have tried
Then try till you suceeed in doing what is right!
You can’t force women to want you
I'm not saying to force anything. Just better yourself and try again
How are you trying to date the girls?
What do you mean
What do you usually do to meet new girls?
Not much cause I naturally assume it’s just gonna be a rejection. I have applied things in my psychology to life in this case rejection has become a conditioned response like due to previous rejections my brain has automatically assumed that would be the result for any girl going forward
What thing would defeat that tendency?
I don’t think it’s possible because I have never had a girlfriend my whole life and each attempt was a humiliating rejection with people making fun of me and guilt tripping me and making me feel inferior and that I’m not deserving of a relationship
Just talk with women in a fun way, without any intention to get them.Then you will get the experience you need.
I have done that it seriously seems like friendship with women is my ceiling that nothing else would ever happen
What I do for flirting is telling them light headed flirty jokes.
I’ve done that
After that you ask them for a drink, a walk, or a date right away. At that point everything else tends to be easier.
What if my appearance is the big issue
Would you date the girl from the left?And from the right?www.zensationsmassage.co.uk/.../...1076_Double.jpg
Yeah what does that solve
Tell me yourself.
I really don’t know you just asked if I would date a girl who looks like that
How could that the same person be attractive on the right, but not in the left?
What are you getting at?
You will know when you answer.
It’s the same girl ones just slouched
Most of the attraction is just that: the vibe you have.What vibe would you like the person dating you to have?
Well in get rejected by confused women, had a girl reject me to date another guy now she has completely changed her image to please him and make him happy she shaved her head and everything. I would never ask something like that I’m all for people being themselves
I think this could be a good story to tell my dates:I have had sex with 4 people. 2 of them made a drastic change in their lives after that, where the others ran away just after a short time.Have you ever thought of changing your life?
Dude I’m on a good path I just recently became a supervisor at my job I’ll have my associates degree when summer is over and then I’ll be going into nursing school
Well, the question wasn't for you but speaking about the dates.
So they should change
Cause I could be wrong but if someone has to change their personality or image the chemistry or attraction isn’t very strong because if it was they would accept the individual for who they were
That's correct. That's why I'm not with them, because I didn't liked them.At that time I wanted to think otherwise, but eventually I was just miserable about it. After that they changed, but not exactly for their own reasons but just for impressing me.
Yeah this girl I accepted her for who she was but she rejected me to date this metal guy. She’s a really preppy blonde she completely shaved her head and now try’s to act like a rock chick and it’s annoying all her friends cause they see how fake it is and it’s not the real her
Seems that girls like excitement and surprises, some even go bald about it.
Thing is at the end of the day I’m pretty sure it was more about race then anything else
Damm:Girls, do you find mixed race guys sexy? ↗
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