But, lest this sound like I am telling you "NOOOOOO. Dooon't doooo iiiiiiit!"...When I was over 26 I met and dated fantastic people who were even 30 years older than me. One fun fella was 74 when I was 36ish I think. He's still a friend I love dearly. And I met and eventually my perfect, punk rock dream loverboy of all times, who is 10 years older than me, sometimes as mature as a 12 year old, but other times is like 90. Who has radically changed me in miraculous ways. We've been together 18 years. (I'm polyamorous so some of these relationships overlap if you're trying to do the math.)So, all I can really suggest is, get on a good form of contraception, insist on condoms if you are not monogamous or the first 3-6 months of a monogamous relationship then he has to show you clean STD results on paper from the doctor. (And of course, you will show him YOUR clean STD results, before you even ask for his.) Say no when you need to, yes when you want to. Have a blast.
... eventually *married* my perfect...
I completely agree! Thanks so much for your advice I feel like your advice has been the best hands down! I might just come to you for all my advice problems lol
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Thanks so much for your advice, totally agree! :)
Just callin' it like I see it. I hope it is helpful.
REALLY bad grammar!!! But solid point. You need to live your life, not get tied up in someone (that's very likely) trying to settle down.
But i'm 20 not 2. I'm out of high school, in college with a job and car. But I can totally see your point. Thanks :)
That's not even 10 years apart
@rapfan107 like I said it's just a number. He can be 18 for all I care. I love him and that's it.
Meh my dad is 10 years older than my mom so
@rapfan107 lol good for your mom then? Lol
I know she made a masterpiece (me) but I guess they were less concern about age back then nowadays people are too judgmental
@rapfan107 haha I bet your the best damn thing they ever have. I agree. Too judgmental, easy to fall, no love just pleasure. I think it's like the most stupid trend now a days.
But still is hard as f to find love nowadays I don'tknow how you did it , most girls are just interested in money and guys only want a girl they sleep with a few days a week
@rapfan107 oh I think both of us have a lot in common. His divorce at a yo
His divorce of what?
Sorry my phone flips and it sent lol what I'm saying is his divorce at a young age of 26. I'm recovering from a Relationship which did not end well. Maybe it's for the best we found each other and I know we will be together forever. His the best thing I ever have. I can never describe to anybody how wonderful he makes me feel.
Aww I just threw up in my mouth JKJK😂 well I'm glad to hear someone has found their soulmate gives me hope
@rapfan107 Haha sorry bout that. I didn't mean to disgust you I'm just being honest. lol and thank you. You of course will find one! I'm so damn sure! 🤗
I'm just playing dumb lol don't judge is a disease , you sure I will find one 🤔 if I don't I'm gonna blame It on you for selling me false dreams jk😆
@rapfan107 101% sure! Your still young. Lol look who is talking lol but I'm older than you by a YEAR! 😏 Lol so I have more experience. But seriously it might take like forever but it's not a dream. Don't be grumpy like an old man tho. You are the masterpiece of your mom and dad live up to the expectations! ☺️
Well how about since you got the luck on your side and you say your boyfriend is amazing , how about you set me up with one his sisters, cousins , friends whatever you'll like to donate to this cause 😉jk
@rapfan107 His AMAZING! 🙌 WONDERFUL! 👏 ONE OF A KIND! 💪🏻 lol I didn't know your charity. Lol Anyway 🤔 I have to talk to him about that. No no for his sisters tho they are married. 🤔
That's ok I accept cousins or friends 😉 is they're blonde is a plus jk
@rapfan107 you like white girls? Not brunettes? 🤔 Do you believe that the qualities of the one you like the most will be the complete opposite of your soul mate lol in physical appearance only 😁
Blondes are more fun jk i don't know I've always been into blondes , I don't know why it's cool I'll take a brunette is there's no blondes available😉
@rapfan107 no Burnette would take you anyways so 💁🏻
@leahbri yeah thanks for your unwanted opinion and I'm gonna provide you with this virtual door 🚪so you can get the f outta here and mind your own business😙
@rapfan107 lol cool we all have our preferences. I'm into blonde guys too. My boyfriend is very blonde 5 years ago lol 😂 now he always says have his hair. 😊 His still handsome tho.
@rapfan107 this is my question that your commenting here why dont you get gtfo :)
@leahbri ladies first 🚪here's another virtual door and suck a 🍆👈 in your way out maybe si what you need 😚😚
What do you mean wait a year? Like get to know eachother for a whole year before dating or do you mean meet other people for a whole year then date?
Is it because i'll be older than or whats your logic behind, im curious! 😊
Get to know each other
And also, you're 20. You have a lot of growing up, mentally, to do. You don't think you do! But you do, and will understand in the years to come.
So you're saying go for it?
Irrelevant. Reverse the ages, then talk.
@Gregsonn Excuse me? I'd do the same thing if I was 47 & found some girl whose 27 that was into me too. It doesn't change with the sex of the two involved.
Then you'd have reason to speak on this subject! Did you have this experience @Opinion Owner?
@Gregsonn I don't need to be in the exact same situation as the OP down to the sex/gender for my experience to be a valid contribution.
My other question is why you're interested in a 38 year old at 20.
Look at french president.His wife is 64 he is 40
I searched them omg how weird i didn't know
So I should go for it?
Do you want to?
well i want to get to know him and i wouldn't be opposed to dating him just because of his age
Go for it xx
Irrelevant. Your girlfriend is 30. This girl is 20. HUGE difference! 10 years difference.
@Gregsonn she’s asking how much an age gap is too large. I’m saying it doesn’t matter if you’re both happy