Most Helpful Guy
A couple of questions:
1) Why is it relevant that he is black?
2) Why are you continuing to go to him if you feel like you are being taken advantage of?
Sometimes people ask questions that are along the lines of "I keep putting my hand in the fire and it keeps getting burned, why is this happening?". Well, it's happening because you are letting it happen. If you see clear signs that something isn't working out well for you and yet you keep on doing it then what do you expect? Do you expect that the fire should get less hot or do you stop sticking your hand in it because it's showing no obvious signs of changing?
Most Helpful Girl
Girl, he’s there for all the benefits. If he actually cared about you, he would care about your daughter and you’d be able to tell. He sounds lazy, and selfish.
Dump his ass quick before it gets too hard to.