It feels uncomfortable. How do I know a woman wants to be approached? I’m scared honestly.
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Yeah I know what you mean. I'm very introverted and I don't like being around a lot of people. But even I've approached guys who were alone.What I do is smile at them if they glance my way. If they smile back it means they are at least approachable.So then ask them something absolutely anything. Don't make it seem like your hitting on them or asking them out just talk to them as if you would talk to a friend.You'll then get an idea of whether they're interested or not. If they keep talking and showing interest in keeping the conversation going they clearly want to be approached. Then you can move on to saying something like 'wow your really interesting, I'd love to take you out some time'
Even then they could reject you say they have a boyfriend etc. At which point you say 'oh ok nice talking to you' and leave.Don't fear rejection. It's part of asking people out. I've been rejected numerous times! I have anxiety and I over thought this so much but I pushed myself to not let it get to me. You gave to at least try even if your scared. Because before you know it you'll be older and writing this same question.
Please don't let life pass you by. My anxiety got pretty bad in the last two years and I stopped putting myself out there. Now I've wasted two years that I could have been dating approaching guys, having them approach me. So don't waste time! Good luck
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