The double standard women have for everything
that's a cunning plan: he gets on his knees once so that she would get on knees for him till the end of her life
I tought about this as well. A guy on his knees hearing a "no"...And you expect him to still be with her?I dont know if these females are just dumb or just not aware of what this does to a man, due to their lack of balls
@lord_chilled true, but what if she just doesn't want to marry him? do you suggest she says yes, just to flake on him later?
@jdoe80 no, she tells him she is sorry but no.And if she actually led him on enough for him to do that (whoch she very likely did) i suggest she apologizes for that as well.She sure as hell shouldn't have the gut to ask him " are we still fwiends?" let alone a relationship
@lord_chilled yea, you have point
I dont understand how a woman is ready for a relationship, but not for a marriage, like i dont get this...As a man, there's only two reasons i can see myself involved with a woman 1) i want to fuck her2) i want to be with her, forever.For the wast majority of girls, its simply reason 1 for me, and i couldnt care less about a "relationship" , i just wanna fuck.Very rarely, may i see a girl, who i find is perfect, and its only in that case i get in a relationship, if she reciprocates the feelings.Now, if i wanna fuck a girl, and she says no, she only does that when in a relationship, i can understand that. Not all girls sleep around.But why do girls not understand it when a guy who is in a relationship with her leaves her when she declines his proposal?Wtf?Like you can refuse sex with guys if we dont commit to you, but we can't refuse a relationship with you when you refuse commitment?
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What if she's just not ready? It doesn't mean she doesn't love him...
@BlueDream It absolutely means she doesn't love him. Not being ready is an excuse, if she loved him none of that would matter.
Well what if she comes from a fucked up family where parents are separated and she just doesn't want to make the same mistake they did?
@BlueDream Sounds like she is going to let her parents failed relationship dictate her future with a man who isn't her father.
I think it depends on the time spend together. If he proposes in less than 2 years it is just too early to say you want to get married. You don't know each other that well yet.
@Pikachula @BlueDream when a man gets on his knee to propose to a woman and she says no, she doesn't love him. Simple as that.She probably doesn't know what love means, neither does she know what is sympathy.Probably a psychopath as well
Any man with self respect would move on.Dont call it an ego.Its called being a real man, not a mangina
How would you feel if you go to a guys place and you two make out and you get naked and mentally get ready to have sex, and he says, "you know, im not ready yet.Let me finish college first. We still have reproductive health classes to cover. And that "safe sex" course too"Would you ever approach this guy ever again?
@lord_chilled I don't get it. I have never heard anybody say that.
Exactly my point. Neither did i ever hear of a girl expecting a guy to still be in a relationship after she rejected him
@lord_chilled if she’s busy working on her career or her education she doesn’t have time for marriage. As a wife She won’t be able to give him the attention he needs
No work and no educations hsould be more important than a mans ultimate commitment to you.If your education/work comes before that , then you dont deserve him.Way to go to belittle a man
@lord_chilled it should come before that. He could leave her at anytime and what is she left with? Nothing. No career and no education. Independence comes before any man
No ot shouldn't if you love the man.Your response just goes to show that you dont trust men and you value your work over a man.If you value your independence so much, then you aren't suitable for marriage anyway.And what world do you live in?Ever heard of alimony, child support?Divorce is basically a transfer of all of a mans assets to a woman.
@lord_chilled she’s left without a career and an education. Stop scaring so ass hurt.
Since when can a woman no longer get an education and get a job after marriage? Did we go back in time to 16th century or something?Im saying it as it is, you women are full of shit and dont respect men, and dont like it when we call you out on it
@lord_chilled independence before any damn man
If you can't get married, why are you even in a relationship?Like whats the difference?Its just a deeper level of commitment.Nothing else. And women say men are the ones scared of commitment. So full of sh*t. Thanks for opening my eyes
Well in that case, enjoy your independence. Just dont be a hypocrite and ask a man to be in a relationship. Because that takes away our independence.
@lord_chilled I’m already in a relationship. Smartness.
@lord_chilled he’ll take your butt hurt ass on somewhere else. Just cause you got rejected don’t mean you gotta be a dick about it
I tought, you valued your independence? So why do you wanna be in a relationship then? Domt you have an education to complete and work to do?
I dont quite umderstand your first sentence. Did you mean your boyfriend was gonna take me on?😂😂😂What are we fighting with? Memes? Well i think i figured out why you want a relationship for. So that you can send him to fight your battles on the internet with strangers who'se comments you didn't like.And i wouldn't be bitter over a rejection. I WOULD be pretty pissed of a woman rejected me and then told me to stay in a relationship with her tough.
@lord_chilled we are both working on it.
@lord_chilled marriage is not the same as a boyfriend girlfriend relationship way more commitment involved
Really? How much committment?Like what terms are there?What is there in a marriage, thats not there in a relationship, and why would you want a relationship with a man if you dont want marriage (not joking, genuinely interested)Coz as a man, there's only two kinds of relationships with a woman:- i just want to f*ck herI dont care about anything else with her, and im not looking forwards to wasting my time with her. If she is dtf, wr can f*ck, and thats that. You dont need any relationship for that.OrI want to be with herAs for this, relationship, engagement, marriage its all the same. I wanna be with you and i am with you for the long run , this isn't playing around.
@lord_chilled not everyone thinks like you. Some people just want partners. Not everyone is into marriage. My aunt and her boyfriend were together for 15 years before she passed away. They were never married.
Pretty much all men i know think like this, and as for me, i really dont understamd any other tought process.Your aunt and her boyfriend, if they were living together that long, whats the difference from them being married anyway?
@lord_chilled exactly. What’s the point of being married.
Okay so you dont wanna give me answers, but expect me to answer yours, princess (*sarcasm)Marriage to me nowadays is more like symbolism. It shows that you are committes to that person forever.It tells me that a woman will take care of me, have my children and have a family with me. We complete each other. Thats true love. Not being able to sacrifice your independence , is not true love.Thats the point of marriage
@lord_chilled you literally just asked what was the point of being married considering they were together for 15 years. You can be committed and not be married. I know many people who have been together for years and they weren’t married. You fail to realize marriage is not for everyone. Slot of people do better as boyfriend and girlfriend.
If those people libed together, and/or have kids, whats the big difference?All i can say is that they are scared of commitment.I feel bad for people who are in relationships bit can't marry
@lord_chilled I don’t. If not being married makes their relationship work then what is it to you. I don’t care ignore I get married or not. Preferably not
Alright, whatever. Nice day
Because I can. Why does it matter?