I know I am not the smartest and make mistakes. I think I know everything, but the more I think the more realize I don't know shit. I have a low level of confidence and self respect, always think about stuff twice or three times or more before making a decision. I am also a very honest person and always try to say. what I think. I am also kind of a pessimistic, but consider myself realistic.
Does anyone have any advice? How do I stop worrying about us so much. I really like her and have a good feeling about her and with her, but ruin that feeling because I'm overthinking
Most Helpful Girl
I’m the exact same. Over thinker, I haven’t found a solution. Drives me nuts, then I worry about worrying lol
Most Helpful Guy
I think you are placing all your value on this girl once you understand that you are as valuable as her you will stop over thinking, start a hobby focus on your job/uni when you are doing something stay focused on what you are doing, develop yourself, if you make these sacrifices early on years down the track, sure you might get married but you will have this underlying resentment against her, sure you love her but you'll keep thinking, what if, what if i focused on my career instead, what if I chose to follow that dream, the fact is you can do both, sharing a life doesn't mean sacfricing it, know your worth