How long should you date before you become official?

I've been seeing a guy I met online maybe once in 2 weeks. Up until know, we've had 3 dates, a fourth one is planned for next week. We haven't had sex yet. How long do you think is ok to date before you officially become a couple like in a relationship?


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What Guys Said 2

  • Basically people can decide to get laid at the very 1st date. But to get officially married may require a lot more, like couple of months of living together.

  • I think it’s ok to make official by date 3 if you really like each other especially if you’ve been talking for more than a month which
    it seems you have

    • Isn't it a bit too soon? I mean, it's only been 3 dates after all...

    • If you both feel comfortable it’s not. There’s no set time limit if you want to wait that’s normal if you want to declare it now it’s normal

What Girls Said 1

  • I don't think there is a count, its just when it feels like it, over all from the first time you meet its a relationship
    A couple relationship i think has much more to do with the feel then the time spend together or even less on amount of dates
    Its can be the first and can never be all on how it feels

    That my 2.7 cents on the matter 😅


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