My boyfriend of six months wants to move out of his home where his mom and brother live so that he can live more of an "exciting" life where he moves from couch to couch and in his car.
Coming from the perspective of wanting stability, I was upset at this declaration. I feel that it would be more beneficial to him to stay at home where he can save his money and continue paying of his student loans until he is more financial capable of moving into his own apartment/home.
I don't want to tell him what to do, he's a man in his twenties, he can decide for himself what is best for him. But I don't necessarily want to date a man who is "homeless."
Most Helpful Guy
This is a crossroads. He is definitely going to shoot himself in the foot by doing that. All his talk of an "exciting" life seems like he doesn't much going for him and he won't be able to afford activities anyways. That says a lot about his character and how he views responsibility and how he handles long term commitment. you're only six months in so you can decide if you want to pull out. If you do bring it up and he calls you "selfish" for challenging him, do yourself a favor and just get the hell out of there
Most Helpful Girl
Tou obviously know what you want in life and he doesn't. My advice... break up with him and find someone else who wants to be mature and responsible