I don't know how to feel. I'm very confused with it all.
I would feel confused too. Does his crossdressing reflect his sexuality? I understand you are trying to be a good person and supportive. I think you should take some alone time and process the information and really see how you feel. A big shock like this takes time to process! Make sure you know all the details and weigh the pro and cons.
There's nothing that I've seen in the past few years that I've known him that would reflect it, maybe he's just been super good at hiding it and now that he's told me he'll let his guard down
If you two are together and love each other, you should be able to sit down and talk about this together. Tell him you love him and that you're trying to understand but you need to know if there is anything else that he is keeping from you and that you will always be a friend and ALWAYS love him no matter what he does.
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Absolutely, I love him very much
Can you accept the crossdressing side of him? Bear in mind, there might come a time he's wearing your clothes or underwear.
I've left clothes at his house from time to time so he probably already has. And it actually doesn't weird me out, now that I've had some time to think about it
Haha. Then it shouldn't be a problem.